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“I Have a Dream (C)”

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 21, 2008

This is one of the first posts on this blog, and remains one of the most-likely to get hit by a search engine. It hasn’t seen the front page in three years, though, so I thought this would be a good day to re-post it:

The online Globe and Mail has an important item on how documentary filmmakers and others are being slammed by the IP equity grab, called “How Copyright Could be Killing Culture”. Okay, maybe “killing culture” is a little over the top. I suppose if more rigorous enforcement of copyright would throw a speed bump in front of the likes of Michael Moore, our modern Leni Reifenstahl, that would put a little chill in the air — but is that killing “culture”?

The point of the article, flagged by Tech Law Advisor, is nonetheless well taken. On the road yesterday morning, I listened to the entirety of the “I Have a Dream” speech on the Imus show (and, indeed, wondered about permissions — or does Imus need them?). The speech is breathtakingly beautiful, compassionate, stirring, patriotic; it is a truly appeal to America’s better self. (What a contrast to the self-parodic tropes of King’s imitators.)

The Eleventh Circuit Court of Appeals ruled in 1999 that the speech was not “generally published” for purposes of waiver of copyright, and that the King estate had the right to enforce its copyright in the speech. It is interesting to learn that King himself filed the copyright for the speech (albeit a month after he gave it — one of the issues in play in the case). According to the Globe and Mail article, however, for the makers of the King documentary Eyes on the Prize to renew their copyright clearances, they would need between a quarter and a half a million dollars. Evidently they won’t or can’t do it, so untold numbers of schoolchildren (who, please God, are prevented from listening to Imus’s show) won’t be exposed to the documentary, the speech, or this compelling version of the MLK story.

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Grand Central arches

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 20, 2008


Grand Central arches
Originally uploaded by Ron Coleman.

I’m always fascinated at the juxtaposition of arcs and right angles in architecture. And being rather metaphor-minded, my first thought when reconsidering this picture a few days after it was taken was that those soft, sensitive curves just couldn’t cut it without those broad-shouldered perpendicular members to hold them up.

This is idiotic, of course. Stiff old columns are yesterday’s news. The innovation of the load-bearing arch was what revolutionized architecture. It is the “soft,” curvy arches that are the real toughies, and the ones you can really count on to keep everything elevated and the roof from tumbling down.

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Hey, wait a minute. I was the president of the drama club!!

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 20, 2008

David Lat at Above the Law responds to an outraged, but evidently not “outed,” would-be tipster who gets all huffy about a narrowly-tailored — fabulously tailored, in fact — social invitation circulated at a big law firm:

Truth be told, we aren’t deeply troubled. Regardless of their technical status under the law, events for lawyers who share common interests happen all the time.

So lighten up, Mr. Tipster! You probably wouldn’t have liked the music anyway . . .

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The PhotoShop diet

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 20, 2008

If only it were this easy:

A mailer from a congressional candidate’s campaign contains a photo of his head attached to an image of a different body that makes him look thinner.

The photo is presented as a true image of Dean Hrbacek, a Republican former mayor of Sugar Land. In reality, it is a computerized composite of Hrbacek’s face and someone else’s slimmer figure, in suit and tie, from neck to knee.

Yes, it is dishonest, especially in a society where we not only prefer to have pretty people around us than un-pretty ones (has there ever been a different kind of society?) but one where we make pretty firm affirmative moral judgments about people based on their weight.

Is it more dishonest than wearing a hairpiece? I’d say so, yes. The hairpiece, like any cosmetic appliance, changes how you really look. So does getting a tummy tuck; if Hrbacek had done that, he’d be a slimmer guy. But playing with pictures is a tad more of an acute angle on that slippery slope.

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A not so beautiful mind

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 18, 2008

Chess master Bobby Fischer dies at 64.

He was a rotten, nasty and evidently rather crazy old genius.  His story is a sad one, and it is hard not to see the tragedy of too many crossed wires in a brain of great power.

But he was who he was, and he will not be missed.

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More on middle age

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 17, 2008

Here’s an interesting set of thoughts on the topic of hitting your forties… or the middle of them. In light of this discussion, and many of the great insights that were offered iniceberg-concept.jpg the comments, I’ve been thinking more about this.

I found this link when searching for commentary on the concept elucidated in the Mishna that, at age 40, one begins to have deeper understanding. I absolutely experienced this in my own life. I didn’t necessarily say deep, but I did say deeper.

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Middle aged madness

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 15, 2008

sinatra-at-midlife.jpgThe New York Times has an article questioning the application of the term “midlife crisis” to excuse philandering males:

[Y]ou have to admit that “I’m having a midlife crisis” sounds a lot better than “I’m a narcissistic jerk having a meltdown.”Another patient, a 49-year-old man at the pinnacle of his legal career, started an affair with an office colleague. “I love my wife,” he said, “and I don’t know what possessed me.”

It didn’t take long to find out. The first five years of his marriage were exciting. “It was like we were dating all the time,” he recalled wistfully. But once they had a child, he felt an unwelcome sense of drudgery and responsibility creep into his life.

Being middle-aged had nothing to do with his predicament; it was just that it took him 49 years to reach a situation where he had to seriously take account of someone else’s needs, namely those of his baby son. In all likelihood, the same thing would have happened if he had become a father at 25.

Why do we have to label a common reaction of the male species to one of life’s challenges — the boredom of the routine — as a crisis? True, men are generally more novelty-seeking than women, but they certainly can decide what they do with their impulses.

It’s true, that, but it really only begs the question. The article seems to be based on a premise, not exactly spoken out, that people who refer to midlife crisis mean to excuse immoral behavior. I have never gotten the impression that this is how people use the term, however.

I think they are just talking about a real phenomenon that the psychologist who wrote this article acknowledges exists: Men reach a point where they face a different set of feelings and choices from those they have faced before, typically in middle age. They then choose either to resist the bad choices or they don’t.

This is midlife crisis. For people who never confronted such a moment in their lives — where things they thought made them happy, no longer do; or where drives they thought were quiescent or that they never even knew they had, resurface or are born — this is already a sort of crisis. And if they don’t behave, why, they will then turn this crisis of the spirit into a crisis greater still. It is possible also to take this moment to build on what one has.

That remains, always, the choice.

Now, I am only in my early 40’s (for two more months!) — so this cannot be about me. What do you think a blogger like me is, anyway — a narcissist?

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Velvety

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 10, 2008

This morning my voice is a nice, velvety baritone. Meaning, of course, that there’s a bunch of spit hanging onto my second-tenor pipes. I don’t know if this means the end of the last cold, the beginning of a new one, or if at age 44 my voice has finally finished changing.

But, gosh, I like it this way.

I think I would just be so much more effective as a person if I had a deep voice. And, you know, happier, too. I just love the sound of the opening verse of Lou Rawls’s “You’ll Never Find'” — he just scoops up that “You’ll Never Find” with that beautiful vocal tone and yes! That’s where I want to be.the-jewish-partner.jpg

This morning, I almost am.

Baby.

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Warm snap

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 7, 2008

It was spring-like in New York today, and tomorrow promises to be even balmier. And it was only at the end of last week’s bitter cold snap that I was encouraging humanity to hang in there, spring is coming!

But it is an insidious trick, a snare for the evil inclination and a bait for the spirit, to be presented with a premature thaw only a week after New Year’s, knowing as we do that it will be torn from us by January’s glacial jaws. Is it better to have thawed and frozen, or never to have warmed at all?

Some people encountering such low-pressure lure believe it wise to keep themselves clad in their icy exteriors, despite the transparent promise of a few days of coatless weather. They focus on the frigid fact that the warmup is doomed, and would rather maintain an algid affect for the long haul than risk the heartbreak of halfhearted heartwarming.

Others take a quick meltdown for what it’s worth and pull down their frosty fences, figuring it’s a lot cheaper than a standby flight to Hawaii and less flaky, too. But is it really wise to expose oneself to such spiritual swings? Whose soul, after all, is made of Pyrex, immune to such raw shifts of hot and cold?

Not mine. My heart can’t handle the melt-and-freeze cycle, crystallizing and cracking with each go-round.

I’ll bundle up and brave the warm. My New York winter is not done with me.

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By her own hand

Posted by Ron Coleman on January 7, 2008

Overlawyered asks, is it really possible — or, practical — to design a system that makes it impossible for suicidal psychiatric patients to kill themselves?

Most patients who are admitted to inpatient psychiatric facilities these days arrive there because they are either suicidal or psychotic. Short stays are the norm, and thus hospital staff are given the difficult task of caring for numerous patients who are very sick. Indeed, caring for the very sick is what hospitals do; but assuring safety for patients who are actively intent on hurting or killing themselves has always been a difficult task. Patients who are chronically suicidal often spend a great deal of time contemplating the method of their demise and it takes very little time to accomplish this goal once the final decision is made.

No psychiatric system, no matter how elaborately conceived, can assure us that a desperately depressed patient driven by suicidal thoughts will not harm himself. By seeking to hold someone responsible for the unfortunate events like those that occurred with Ms. Ferrell, our legal system drives the health care industry to spend inordinate amounts of monies to reduce patient risk to as close as zero as possible. Such pursuits invariably raise costs and limit services within our health care system which operates within a finite fiscal reality of uneven private and Medicaid reimbursements.

Ultimately, someone who wants out badly enough will find a way.

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